I haven't been on here in a while, I do appreciate the responses. I admit detaching is the hardest thing to do. I'm currently working on it. I do get a lot of joy going to church, it gives me a sense of peace. I love this women and yes I have taken her for granted. I did make some changes and I slipped back in the old routine. I don't want to slip back and I do Know My W has told me several times, that she see's my changes and even said I'm this fantastic man she has never met. She does follow up with saying I'm going to go back to my old ways. I do show her empathy when she tells me this by letting her know I understand why she would thinks because I took her for granted.
