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Of course for him it was and is all lust.

You don't know that and lust isn't a bad thing in the right context.

This is not to create hope so much as to point out how destructive mind-reading is. Since my H and I have R, I've found out that a lot of my assumptions about what he was thinking and feeling were so very wrong.

Try to stay out of that trap because it colors they way we interact.