@NTX - I told someone recently I wasn't done with the marriage, but I was done with who W is right now. And I won't stop the divorce from finalizing 4/1. I'd like to believe when it comes down to it, W dismisses it (again) because she knows it's wrong.
I think you know you're done, not when you're angry and bitter and vicious, but when you just can say, "Oh well, my life is good, and will be good either way".
