New to This - An English Man In Trouble

[Hadlee58]

Well D-day is virtually upon us now. My W has found somewhere else to live and is moving out next Friday. family and work are up to speed and there is no issues there, probably some relief on our parents side that its for the best. The only task remaining is telling the kids tomorrow, not looking forward to that one bit but i have to try to stay strong for them, it chokes me up even thinking about it so i am trying to block it out of my mind until then, i have read up on this plenty but any advice or pointers would be a help...
Things have gone pretty well this past week now that reality has set in and W and i have been getting along great, we have resolved all the minor issues and both want whats best for the children, i am happy that we are splitting their time 50/50 and i have some great plans for them, even thinking of taking them to a music festival this summer for a few days, something i have always wanted to do. I am sure there will be many obstacles we have to over come but thankfully (and rightly so) we are working together to make it as easy for everyone, long may it continue.
I have mixed emotions at the moment one minute i am busy thinking of the future ahead and how 'i' can make it great and a new chapter and the next i am low thinking about what could have been but i guess thats natural, hopefully after next friday although i know i will be hurting i will have much to do and plan for that will help keep me occupied.
Maybe this isnt the end of the road and some time apart will help but it feels pretty final to me at the moment.
I will continue to post as and when i can and i would just like to say a big thank you to all who have read and posted to me, it has been a great source of comfort for me since last year, ihave read stories on here most days and its a great community. Hey one day i might be able to offer some advice too maybe there is still hope but its time to not worry about that and concentrate on a new beginning for me and our children.

Thanks G