3boyz, glad to see your update. I feel like this is deja vu with your H - didn't this happen not so long ago after you had set the boundary about when he could come by?
Your H seems pretty self absorbed. (I know, I am pretty sharp to notice that, right?)
As usual, he reminds me of my H. He has told me a zillion times he isn't good at planning. I guess they think everyone else should bear the consequences of that?
I'm disgusted that your H would use custody as a threat, when he even admits he doesn't really want it! At least my H pretends he actually wants it. (Applaud the 1%? LOL.) If I were you, I would literally just ignore that kind of comment if he tries it again. Just stick with that boundary - you have done a great job so far. Theoretically, he will learn how to plan, and if not, that's his problem. Don't let it become yours.
Sorry you are so slammed at work - I hope you can have some quality time with your sweet boys this weekend!
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
