Melissa, it amazes me how many people still believe that D is a good solution when there are problems in a M. All D really does is trade one set of problems for a whole new set of problems. My W seems to share a lot of the same attitudes as your H. She just wants me to go along with whatever she tells me and then everything will be just peachy for our kids and herself. It doesn't seem to matter to her that our oldest D is now in counseling every day and that our two other kids are starting to show signs of having problems as well.
Maybe your H will look in the mirror one day and realize her made a massive mistake. Even if he does, it will take a lot of courage to admit he made that mistake and then do something to correct it.
I'm glad you have your kids with you. That makes all the difference. It sounds like you have a good weekend ahead too
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS
