On another note I was searching the web the other day, forgot what exactly I put in the search criteria, but one of the first links was a site to "get him to leave his wife." That made me so angry. There is so much junk out there, (cheating sites, how not to get caught) is it any wonder why there is so much divorce? And let's not forget the sites that say "it's ok" to leave your spouse or the "10 reasons you should divorce." Crazy. Funny thing, or not so funny really, one of H's good friends is recently divorced. My H has said what bad shape he's in, drinking way too much. Made a drunk post on FB one night, H didn't give me details but can only assume it was about suicide, that prompted my H to reach out to him. Yet, here my H is putting his family through that. I think my family and my marriage is worth fighting for, even if it has been rough from the start. Grrrr
Me-44 (45) H- 50 (51) M-'96
S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)
BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas) home Oct(sep rooms) (EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed) insists wants D through July 2015 no more talk of D since