Quote: a "switch is turned" in their brains, in a way, that makes sex a very different thing for them... 100% agreed!
intimacy through sex is removed and sex becomes a game, or a fun outlet for lust, but does not hold the intimate connective quality more common among women who did not experience sexual molestation. Nope! The fact is that intimacy through sex *might* be removed and *might not* hold the intimate connective quality... How an individual deals with abuse is very personal. To me, sex is extremely, possibly even hypersensitively, intimate. I can't and refuse to "just do it" - I need to feel connected first, otherwise sex is like eating after I'm already full or trying to fit a square peg into a round hole.
By and large, molestation victims become promiscuous and very often seek validation from many men, etc. *Some* molestation victims *may* become promiscuous, but not in my case.
Nope! The fact is that intimacy through sex *might* be removed and *might not* hold the intimate connective quality... How an individual deals with abuse is very personal. To me, sex is extremely, possibly even hypersensitively, intimate. I can't and refuse to "just do it" - I need to feel connected first, otherwise sex is like eating after I'm already full or trying to fit a square peg into a round hole. 
