So, if I started doing some 1800 I would continue the happy / positive / open to new things attitude. This is an awesome one for not only DB but also as an in general life rule. Another huge 180 would be to show more affection, kisses, love, etc... However this goes directly against everything right now.
Me: 33 / H: 36 M: 10y / T: 14y 3 kids BD: 2/22/14 Live in separation 3/8/14 H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14 H moved out 4/25/14 2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month