I'm having a very hard time following these rules. I feel like it just gives my husband exactly what he wants. All he wants is me to shut up and us to not discuss his issues or him to be accountable in any way at all. It makes me angry. I want him to grow up and be accountable. I don't understand how this aids that at all, even though I know it's pretty much the only hope to ride it out until he gets over himself. :-( Anyone else having this problem?
me-39 H-36 MS 17 MD 15 Our Kids 5 & 2 Married 8 years, Together 10 H doesn't want a divorce, but would prefer we live our entire marriage by the "37 rules."