By the time I got home last night it was 1030 and the 1st thing W says is i got your response to my divorce filing today from my L and he said how unreasonable your response was and how it demonstrates the lack of experience of my L ...so needless to say it did not really provide an opportunity to treat W as a renter/roomate. I basically just asked if she would sit down with me after she received her L draft response back to me so we could just hammer out the details and agree now on terms instead of going back and forth with the Lawyers. She said ok so we will see what happens. I then just said goodnight and went to bed. Tonight I have a homebrew club meeting until 8 and W said if I'm home that early she's then going to go out ... so I don't know if I should come home at 8 or just go to the local coffee shop and read a novel till late. Needless to say it will likely be tomorrow/Saturday before having significant time with W to treat her like a renter where she may take notice.
Me: 47 Her: 45 M 18 years T 22 years S-6 D-9 Separate rooms 1/5/14 Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14