Remember that you don't have to do anything on your W's timeline. You can tell her that you do not agree with her proposals (really they are demands but let's not stir the pot unnecessarily) but that you will have to discuss this stuff at a later date because you have to focus on your Mom right now.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
