MrBond, it's amazing to me that the WAS would do that but then I suppose I can understand it in a way. If they felt they were working on the M, even if they didn't tell their spouse they were, they thought they already did all they could so why bother doing anything else after they leave.
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS