Less talking, more listening! ~~~ YEP!! trying to DO this!!

If he were to commit and be prepared to buy a house with me... that is progress. Especially if he believes it to be HIS idea...That is COMMITTMENT!

Yes... right now he is not "actioning" his thoughts/words. This is what he does. This is not new behaviour from him. But, it does tell me that he is at least considering as opposed to last year without any sort of words/thoughts that he was considering.

He is not impulsive... which is why it was ever so shocking that we ever split up. He went to great lengths, I am sure to come to that conclusion. Too much thought, he overthinks. He cannot get organized enough to actually execute his plan. He is this way too over purchases/investments/vacations, etc. It was always my "job" to realize the outcome.

Thoughts?

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)