Need help saving my family - part 4

[Scorp7]

"We both know that there won't be a reconciliation."

I know I shouldn't let this hurt me but it just rips my heart out. How can she say things like this? Unlike so many others on here, we've never worked on our marriage. Not for one day. No counseling, no talking about things needing to change or else, nothing.

I feel like I need to face reality. Our old M is done, obviously, but I don't see how there could ever be a future together again.

Oh, and just to rub salt in my wounds, my oldest D is telling me about pic my W's "friend" is sending her, constantly, from his vacation.