Hi there! I think your encounter with your H went well. You did good! Just keep in mind that this could be a long drawn out process if he is in MLC which it does sound like he is!
BD-Aug 2009 OW Confirmed H moves out Dec 2009 D filed by H-Mar 2010 H asks to come home April 2011 BD AGAIN 1-15-2014! H seeing FOW! H ran away again! 1-18-2014