own buz 23:mediation to reconcilliation, PATIENCE!

[courageouswife]

I hope you do not consider buying a house with him for a long, long time mm. My H was home almost 3 years and I still did not feel comfortable enough to commit to a 2yr contract for Dish or cell phones...

I agree with the others about you steering the convo...maybe not intentionally...but you did do it! Old habits are very hard to break and as hard as you are working to change them, it is easy to fall back into them especially when you are starting to feel comfortable that things are working out.

Less talking, more listening!