I truly felt like I was being supportive earlier today. I am trying to create and maintain a positive energy around me.
I just know I am going to mess this up. Last time I have a little more hand holding but I was also in full on crisis mode. This time I feel a little more in control. I know the asking for holding the lawyer off was the wrong step. I need to work on thinking before speaking.
Me: 33 / H: 36 M: 10y / T: 14y 3 kids BD: 2/22/14 Live in separation 3/8/14 H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14 H moved out 4/25/14 2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month