Limbo is the new normal

[slow_it_down]

As is the norm for me, things are a changin'. My H has been very warm and friendly, even calling me on the phone daily. He offered to pay my legal fees for the consultations I had to get when he threatened legal action. I'm pretty impressed that he's not just saying he feels bad about his threats to take me to court but is also willing to foot the bill to make up for it.

Lately he's been over visiting our S during dinner. Usually he doesn't eat with me and the older kids but he finally joined us at the table and ate with us yesterday.

This new job option really could be a game changer for us. When I see how light and comfortable he is I feel like I'm looking at the upbeat guy I met instead of the grumpy downer he's been the last few years.