Ultimately, I want to R with my W. If it takes years I am willing to stick with it.

Besides that, I was equal time/custody of our kids. I am willing to relocate to the area my W is in to make that possible (since it's unlikely she will agree to come back to my province willingly).

For the financial matters, I will go along with anything she wants to do provided she agrees to sharing our kids. I could agree to selling our house, business, trailer etc, and not hold that as any kind of leverage for the sitch with our kids but the financial matters are the only real leverage I have right now.


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS