Need help saving my family - part 4

[Scorp7]

Wonka, I have retained the L but she hasn't filled for D yet. I have a bunch of paper work to provide before that happens so it will take some time. I can still decide to not file for D right now.

As to the current sitch with our kids, from what I understand I would have to file an application for my W to come back to my province. She could then file one herself to stay where she is. The L didn't think that in that sitch it would help and we would just be wasting time/money. With the issue of my W blocking me access to the kids, again it would be an application that would be blocked by my W. The only action that has any real teeth to it is if I file for D and then, if it goes before a judge, the judge would then define custody. Other than that it's just a negotiation between either my W and I or my W's L and my L.