She left - My Story, First Post

[gogofo]

Not much has changed in my situation in the last 5 days or so. I have been reading and working on myself, but little to no interaction between the W and I.

The only interaction between us lately has been phone calls or text message exchanges that involve the kids or bills. We do not even see each other when swapping the kids around as one of us will drop them off at school and the other will pick them up.

Is this good or bad or neutral? Having no contact, besides kid stuff, I assume gives her space and time which I assume is valuable and the best thing for us during the S.

This just feels flat out weird. I could foresee this pattern of non-interaction lasting weeks or months. Again, just weird when we have been around each other for 9 years.

The idea now is to allow her to heal, and possibly miss me, and take the time to decide how she feels without feeling pressure from me. Correct?

Through 180s and working on myself, if I am becoming a person only a fool would leave how is the W going to notice?

Is the next possible natural progression to my situation going to be the W initiating more contact?