Sex-Starved??? That's an understatement!

[25yearsmlc]

I have a sarcastic sense of humor. I will work to keep that in check.

I can be very sarcastic when I do stand up comedy. But if it's not self deprecating, and it's in a personal relationship, sarcasm reveals anger or contempt. At least it did the last time I looked up the word.

I don't mean to harp at this but you still won't concede that you were being snotty with your w, plain and simple. WE ALL HAVE BEEN THERE, but when 3 women point it out and you continue to insist that we don't get it or that you meant to be funny...i just feel so much resistance I don't get it.

Admitting you let your anger affect you does not make you evil. Stubbornly insisting you did nothing like that, is just stubbornness and it's not serving you well.

Here's the interchange according to You:


me: thats vw. I drink vw zero
w: what's the difference?
me: vw has 20+g of sugar and zero doesn't and im trying to lose weight.
w: (laughing) Oh! I didn't notice. they all look the same.
m: good thing I was here then or you would have bought the wrong ones
w: (stares at me w/ hate in her eyes) I wouldn't have done that!!!

Oh! Oh! what did I do now? WTF!

In my mind though im saying "because when u go shopping u buy all of your things and F*** UP! the things I need and your only comment is "who cares? eat it anyway It won't kill you!"


This ^^ bold part is pure anger from you. You're mocking her and you resent how she shops and forgets what YOU want. You think she's selfish that way and it shows.
The first part, where you wanted a pat on the back for being there, might have worked, except you added the part about how she'd be "Wrong" without you there,

and saying that is not going to help YOU. And she HAD been laughing when she said they all look the same to her. That was self deprecation on HER end...imo.

that's my .02