Originally Posted By: Drew
Originally Posted By: Scorp7
The other point that I didn't mention is that my W and I have full custody of our kids right now.

Just to be clear, I think you meant to say that she has full custody right now, correct?


No, we BOTH have FULL custody right now. There has been nothing before the courts at all changing anything with custody of our kids. That can't happen until one of us files and even then it can take years before the courts to have that defined.

That is why what she is doing is technically illegal. I could bring our kids home as I said above but in that case she would then go and file papers to have the kids brought back to her province. It would be awful for the kids. I haven't done anything like that and have gone along with allowing her to dictate terms thinking that she is just angry, needing time and space, etc, and then in time she would start to be reasonable. It hasn't happened and the longer I wait hoping for that the more I hurt my chances of having equal access to my kids.


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS