TL, You have a better understanding why your mom did what she did? Care to share? Might help.

Jfun - glad you're still posting. Glad you're angry too, although it's not a real fun place to hang out, yeah?

Quote:
I'm angry that nothing changes with my M no matter what I do or what person I have become
Eric may come along a bit later, but I'd paraphrase that as "I do everything I can to control the outcome of my marriage and nothing is working! It makes me angry that I cannot control the outcome!"

Seem about right?

AJ


"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK
Put the glass down...
"Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world
Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."