TL, You have a better understanding why your mom did what she did? Care to share? Might help.
Jfun - glad you're still posting. Glad you're angry too, although it's not a real fun place to hang out, yeah?
Quote:
I'm angry that nothing changes with my M no matter what I do or what person I have become
Eric may come along a bit later, but I'd paraphrase that as "I do everything I can to control the outcome of my marriage and nothing is working! It makes me angry that I cannot control the outcome!"
Seem about right?
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."