not arguing... stating that my actions in the past were to "steer & manipulate"... that particular convo was just my reaction, not with intention (like I have done in the past).
Just off the phone with h. He is interested in counselling, but wants to have many talks first. Wants to decide what areas we can figure out ourselves vs. where we need help/guidance. H is also frugal. He mentioned that if last night hadn't gotten late, he would have suggested going out for a beer. He also suggested that if DD had come along, he would have suggested dinner.
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As for a future home. I stated the "cart before horse" theory to h on Sunday night. I said, shouldn't we be working on our relationship before we consider our living arrangements? As for my current living arrangement ~ its pretty awesome. I get to live in a HUGE house that is just wonderful for hosting parties, etc. for pennies. I am not in a position to rent or buy. When my financial situation is determined (working on this), THEN I will consider my options. For now, I am cozy where I am. I will NOT waste money on Rent! This living situation is a smart move....for now. Purchasing on my own, is my next step. When I am financially prepared.
** will keep my steering in check. Tx for the warnings!!
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
