TL, you did great! The fact that he noticed things tells me that he’s been doing some thinking. Maybe having second thoughts even. But, it is way early in your sitch. It will take some time for him to realize what he’s done. I predict you will see all kinds of behavior from him, from cold and distant to polite and pleasant. My H did this for a while. Sometimes he was flat out rude, sometimes he was very nice. The majority of communication is via e-mail, so I just mirrored his style and replied in similar fashion.
As for remaining friends, you will have your chance. He is so determined to run right now that it will only push him further away. Give it some time and keep acting “as if” he is never coming back.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
