Thanks Rick. I have read Sandy ' s rules ..
I guess I need to again to be sure to stay on track. Just hard ...i got tix to a basketball game for Saturday, college my W went to playing. I was going to extend an invitation to her to go and if she didn't want to tell her no problem and tgat I would take our son ...is that pursuing ...she can take it I r leave and that seems to be the attitude I need to have per Sandys rules....advice


Me: 47
Her: 45
M 18 years
T 22 years
S-6 D-9
Separate rooms 1/5/14
Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14