Need advice!! W sent me a text today to see if I have plans with s on Sunday. This is my weekend. Her cousin is having a cookout then and wants to take our s. so he can play w his cousin. She said she wasn't going to go unless s goes and that if we had plans she would understand. My coach has suggested in the past to discuss things w her and negotiate like partners and he has also told me to say no to things. Not to be a yes man all the time. Think I'm going to say no to this one. That we have plans.


M 43
W 35
S 6
BD 7-11
Served 5-2-13
Sep agree signed 5-12-14
Wife moves out pending refinance 5-14-14
Divorce hearing set May 2
Divorced May 2