no.. that was the outcome... I did not steer. Steering is trying to take control. I was not trying to control the direction of the house conversation.

Steering was was I was doing with the mediator appointment. He did not say he didn't want it. He said he did, but wanted to discuss some things first.

He is not against reconciliation, he SAYS THIS! He is not being pushed into it. He says its ON the table. The mediator may have suggested it, but he was already thinking it anyway.

I can agree.... that I have definitely steered in the past. I am trying hard NOT to do so now. Sometimes its auto reflex... I am working on controlling it.

BUT YES!! more waiting... waiting to listen

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)