Need help saving my family - part 4

[Scorp7]

Unbidden, I did check with my L and she agreed that I should not get into the financials with my W unless she first agrees to sharing our kids equally. It's definitely been on record from the beginning (one good thing about communicating via email) that I do not agree with how things currently are.

I still of course have full custody of my kids so technically what my W is doing is illegal. I likely could bring my kids home, enroll them back in their old schools etc, but that would likely just lead to WW3 and having the kids in a tug of war between my W and I. Not a good thing for them at all so I won't do that.

I'll put something together to send to my W that details the schedule of sharing time equally with our kids and then go from there. I'll post it here before I send, the feedback you all have provided has been so great.