true Ken... however, he did seem to want to offer me some comfort that he is "thinking" that way. Also, it was my reaction...not intended to steer. There is a difference.

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H was just here. A little while ago, he called to offer to drop something off for me. I said ok, want a coffee? He said sure. He came over. DD was here. He was walking around room to room, comfortably. Coffee time was brief. I brought up the mediator refund as we received an email earlier today about it. I asked if he would like to use our refund towards another mediator appointment. We could see her on a personal level too. He said he would like for us to talk some things out before going to her and using up another 6 hours. I said that he doesn't seem receptive to the idea. He said he is receptive. I left it at that. At the door i pushed.. asked if we should book the appointment as it is in April, he said sure...we can always cancel. SO, I guess more waiting... waiting to see when HE wants to have more talks.


M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)