lol wonka... I wasnt suggesting Heather to switch teams.. the family of women is a group of women who support and mentor each other. Its just great for friendships too. So you don't feel alone.
GM & Heather... on the topic of wishing ex-h's to suffer. I used to be on board with that feeling as well. I too used to wish my ex some pain. Looking for Karma! For him to understand what it felt like to be on the hurt side. To my surprise, when his new marriage failed ~ guess who was the first person he called for support? Guess who "thought" she would be happy with this news? Guess who was wrong? I actually felt sorry for him, I could hear his pain. It did NOT make me feel any better.
No point in wasting energy feeling those feelings. I was shocked that I would have a change of heart, when it came right down to it.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
