Unbidden,

Thanks for the response; doesn't get much clearer than that as far as me / my feelings concerned. I don't expect anything more than what she gives and don't read into to it best I can. I wouldn't feel angry; but I would kind of feel used. Guess I'll cross that bridge when it comes time.

My only concern was whether or not she would understand my POV or if it would hurt her and our sitch more if she felt rejected, which wouldn't be my intention. Is giving in to sex just so they can satisfy their physical need and nothing else cake-eating & doormat behavior?

She had an IC appointment this morning; I know the Therapist was going to work on the issues her and I discussed last week. We'll see how things go after.


Azagtoth


Me: 44
X WAW/MLC: 42
Kids: S21, D11
BD: July 2013 (ILYBNILWY)
EAx2: Busted 1 OCT 2013; 25 Mar 2014
Status: Divorcing & Done! Waiting to be final (Nov 2014?) & glad it's finally over!