I was just wondering how the W who files for D feels ...this has been very difficult for me because I do not want a D. Is the spouse who files for D in just as much turmoil or do they feel happy, relieved, etc ...I'm just curious but would imagine it's different for everyone on a case by case basis.


Me: 47
Her: 45
M 18 years
T 22 years
S-6 D-9
Separate rooms 1/5/14
Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14