Thanks, thats what I was thinking as hard as it is!
I also must add, we had sex last night... it wasnt planned and I dont think if it was the best thing to happen. We were talking and then cuddling and he started to kiss me, I asked what was going on and he said "i'm just doing what feels right" and so one thing led to another.
Have I messed up? Should I have stopped it or gone with the flow?!
That's a deeply personal decision (with two just-as-strong schools of thought around here), but if you DO continue to have physical contact with him, I hope you used protection??? If he recently had sex with another woman, you have to go by the assumption that theirs was NOT safe sex, and proceed accordingly.
You should probably have yourself tested.
Sorry to be so blunt, but I'm not telling you anything that your doctor wouldn't tell you, and I had to do this myself, sadly.
