I'm so sorry you were dreaming about him, that stinks. Hopefully one of the vets will chime in here soon I'm not sure ML is a good idea, isn't that cake eating? I'm new at this too so i'm not sure. In my mind - i wondered if my H would ask that same thing because we had a very physical relationship - but I think I would feel like a booty call. I don't want to be his "go to" girl. It could just be a response to knowing you're seeing someone.I will check back and see what the vets tell you. We will continue to learn as this process goes forward, hang in there, try and focus on yourself and kids - stay positive.
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs