Hi Heather.... u need WOMEN !!! I joined an awesome women's group last August that you may be interested in. I have gained soooo much from this group. Its available in the States too. Please check out the Family of Women website.
You will get friendship & a safe place to vent & try out new strategies for a better life.
Let me know if further interested.
take care, Magic
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)