Wonka-Thanks for your post. I needed that reassurance.

I have read your thread-Voyage into the MLCer. I will read it again and compare my sitch.

I'm continuing on with life and trying to stay out of his way.

Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014