Thanks for posting and your concern. I think you may be misunderstanding. I am not in HIS house... I am in a rental of my own. A friend of ours owns this place. It is cheap living and I am here until I figure out my next step. H has no control of how long I will live here. Before I figure that out... I need to know my financial situation. I am currently moving forward with the partial suggestion that the mediator suggested. But, its slow getting H to move forward with it. This past Sunday, he suggested that we go to a mutual lawyer & have it written up. However, we are super busy with work, and it keeps getting placed on the back burner. I keep bringing it to the forefront, as I just did again 5 mins ago. The option to see the mediator again, just presented itself this morning (we have credit). I mentioned it to him to finish up finances or to see her on a personal level. I know He was busy, said we would discuss it later.
I know he wants to buy a house with me. He brought it up on Sunday. I did not steer the convo, he suggested as the mediator suggested a joint purchase. He is just lost on how to actually put it in action. He is eager for BIG changes, I know he wants out of that house with his mom. Motivation. He mumbled something last night about living with DD and me was easy & comfortable. He is overwhelmed and we will discuss it again. Im just being cautious of my timing for this discussion.
Plan B ~ divide business, leave business, buy my own place...live independently of him (completely), until my heart no longer aches to be with him. Possible friendship in future.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
