Magic,

I know a horse can be led to water but you can't make it drink, but I feel compelled to post to you on this issue. I am worried for you.

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my living arrangements are a little complex at the moment. I am currently living in a large place until it sells. Kind of like house sitting. But, this is temporary. I am here until I figure out my financial situation with H....its major progress that he is considering purchasing again "with" me ... this time!


Magic, how does this ^^^^ not concern you?

You are there until your SO decides to kick you out. What if he never wants to buy a house with you? What does your financial future look like if you are not together?

He is "considering". But he isn't doing.

What are YOUR plans if this all goes south?