I know a horse can be led to water but you can't make it drink, but I feel compelled to post to you on this issue. I am worried for you.
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my living arrangements are a little complex at the moment. I am currently living in a large place until it sells. Kind of like house sitting. But, this is temporary. I am here until I figure out my financial situation with H....its major progress that he is considering purchasing again "with" me ... this time!
Magic, how does this ^^^^ not concern you?
You are there until your SO decides to kick you out. What if he never wants to buy a house with you? What does your financial future look like if you are not together?