Learning how to be independent when you are not used to it can be hard. But very empowering. I was raised to be a strong woman BY two very strong women. You are doing well, moving forward and now getting some of that support in place.
No more running out of groceries.
I also wanted to say that I agree with Wonka with regard to you dating. As a single girl, let me tell you how well I understand missing physical contact and a shoulder to lean on.
The intitial interaction with the forester was postive, but there were lessons for you to learn there as well. The fact that you twice went a bit off the deep end texting him should ring a bell with you.
You are in your own growing phase and you have a D19 who is going to look to your example. Be strong in your own right before requiring a man to validate you. Is that what you want to show your daughters? And Heather, when it becomes tough to "be alone" ask yourself this: if you are reaching for a band-aid outside of yourself to make you feel better and validate you - who does that sound like?
That question keeps me honest with myself.
And Heather, when you are truly ready, it won't matter if the man is older than you, or a bit chubby. It is the inside of a man that counts - loyalty, honesty, integrity. That is what counts.
Now go get your sh!t together for another busy day.
