Yeah, not looking for a reaction just always have done those things. Habits hard to break ...I've been trying to call her by name but still find myself saying sweetheart, hunnie, baby, etc.

I kind of agree with you on the FB thing. But I'm looking at thought provoking things to have her reflect on what she is doing not to make her feel guilty ..mind you if she did end up feeling guilty maybe that would help her change her mind on the D?

Me: 47
Her: 45
M 18 years
T 22 years
S-6 D-9
Separate rooms 1/5/14
Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14