He asked to be consulted, consult him. Tell him what D has said her feelings are and see what happens. Let go of the fear. Listen to him. Trust yourself. The decision doesn't have to be made today, right?
She's been through a lot in the last 6 months. Then the fish died. Maybe she needs some unscheduled time to process. We all do.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss