First....you have to start listening and hearing what is said here. You are not doing it....and it is costing you.
Second....If you want to save the marriage, why are you pushing the filing still? Seriously man...I want to save my marriage but I filed the divorce paperwork. That is just unorthodox if you ask me.
Third...addressing the affair after you have read time and time again it only makes matters worse. Sounds to me like you want to control things.....How is that going?
Fourth...This is my big hang up. You take care of those kids regardless of what your wife is doing!!!! Kids come first period....by watching them you are not doing stuff for your wife.....YOU ARE BEING a parent taking care of your kids!!!!
Dude...I can go on and on, but I don't have the time.
