Keeping the secret

[TL72*]

I think that ow you talk about in your past thread has low self esteem and he's just using her. It is something new and exciting and it wears off. We tend to think about it and over analyze it too much. It hurts to think about so I try and think about other things or find something to do to keep me busy. I know in my heart that the OW does not mean as much to him and is not the woman I am. How could she be - YOU have the history with him. There are reminders of us LBS everywhere. There's no way he faked all that love for so long, no way. At least you know in your heart that you have done all you can. Definitely going to be ups and downs for a long time. I read in another post to pretend that OW doesn't exist. I stopped looking at her, at first I was curious, looked up FB, linkedin, google+, saw on the phone bills the messages that were sent(not the content, just that they were sent) and it's just upsetting. I know i'm better than her and you are too. As far as I'm concerned she's getting a crazy person right now. I don't want him this way anyway.