Update...pleasant evening last night. Shared a bottle of wine, nice light dinner conversation, watched an hour of TV and then I said goodnight first and went to bed. Funny how W now mentions such small things she doesn't like ..last night there was a lemon and knife sitting on the counter so I just assumed it was there to be sliced up because we always have sliced lemon in the fridge for tea so I cut it up ...later in the night like just before I'm going to bed she tells me the lemon was for the marinade for tonight's dinner and I sliced it up and that's how I've always been thinking I know what needs to be done and I'll never change ...i just said I shouldn't have assumed and next time will ask her ...just crazy how she now mentions stupid little stuff like this now ...she never ever did before ...it's like she just has to find something to complain about me


Me: 47
Her: 45
M 18 years
T 22 years
S-6 D-9
Separate rooms 1/5/14
Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14