Thank you for your reply Mic, I could use some luck! My younger two don't knwow yet (H request) but I think they can sense a change in our dynamic. My oldest D is mad, but respectful to her Dad.
I don't know if there is OW. He says that there is not, but I would not be shocked if there was one.
I really wish that I didn't have to make the decision to move or not to move. I really feel that staying to get my D through school is important for her and keeping thr girls all together right now is important.
My D9 was facetiming with H the other night and asked him why he was not home. She said "Dad, why are you there and not home, your children are not there, your dog is not there, your wife is not there!" He was silent. I'm not sure how the visitation would work, I know what the courts allow which include his getting them for 42 days in the Summer, every Spring break, every other weekend, and trade off holidays. But, I don't know yet what the reality of that will be as he travels so much.
M45 H46 M16 yrs D17, D10, D7 DB 1-23-2014 H filed D 2-14-2014