It is hard to deal with ingrained behaviors....and it takes time.
It is probably that single thing that eventually drives me from helping others on the boards. I see people just start to make the changes they want....and then they disappear for a lot of different reasons. It takes so long for the changes to become habit, but it does happen. Just takes patience and fortitude.
Let the money thing go for now...as long as the bills are getting paid, no biggee.
