As usual, reading your posts is the highlight of my forum day LOL....Keep on doing the excellent work.
As for the 50/50 split...I think you are really thinking about it well. It will end up more defined by the kids and how the parents can take care of them. You have three little boys....and that is a handful in a one parent situation, so the best way will rise to the top. Your husband bringing it....we all know that it is a control threat...Nothing more. If he can take the kids 50% of the time great, if not....still great LOL.
I am sorry that you will not have the kids 100% of the time. It is one of those realities of what we are going through. IMHO, a much greater damage then anything the WAS actually does. I see my kids struggle with it as teenagers....and I have them about 90% of the time.
